WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER DAUGHTER ON HER WEDDING DAY
My daughter,you are now a wife and soon you'll become a mother
too.
God bear me witness that I taught you how to cook and do other
house chores.
I taught you to respect men and to explain your anger when
necessary but if you do otherwise,i know you,not as a daughter
but as my
fellow woman.
My daughter,you see this your husband? He is a
gentleman but don't take advantage of that. Don't
bring out the beast in him. My daughter,you see this mark on my
forehead?
Your father gave it to me. He tolerated me everytime but on that
day,He came unexpectedly. It wasn't his intention but i dared him
and he hit me just once
My daughter,Men hate it when you use the word
"YOU CAN'T DO IT".He sure can do more than but
he's just protecting u from harm.
My daughter,when eva there is an argument or misunderstandin
g,try drink water.
You can't talk when you have water in your mouth.
Now,you have two families.
You are very lucky!!!!
Tolerate and appreciate them just as you did
here. Learn to welcome other people's kids and
soon,children will surround your table with love. You see that my
big pot? I bought it when i still had
no child but i always cooked with it to feed those
children who had nothing to eat.
Learn to show hospitality. Welcome a visitor and at least,offer a
glass of water. Don't discriminate .
Do not scatter your husband's family. Instead, bring them
together.
Learn to appreciate little efforts and soon,they'll
learn to do more.
Today,you are wearing a wedding gown and you
look so beautiful in it but there is still another gown you need to
wear. That is the MATERNITY gown. I wore it and you shall wear
your's too.
When you have a misundertanding, don't come back here. Sort
things out and build a happy
home. I built mine and your father enjoyed me.
Men like food. They like both the kITCHEN food and the BEDROOM
food. Don't deny him any of the food all because u both had an
argument before.
