Good evening Coach.
I don't know if it's me in the wrong or my husband.
Been married for 13 years today and a mother of 3.
My couple was going well until my husband lost his job. Since I was fighting in the store he opened for me at the beginning of our marriage, I was taking care of the house: ration, children's health, schooling, and a lot of other bills.
My husband had been looking for another job for two years without success. My capital was only decreasing and that's when my feelings had drastically changed in his favor. He wouldn't renew his clothes anymore, no soap or toilet milk for him. He had completely changed. Yesterday's beauty, it had become ugly in my eyes. And so I no longer wanted him sexually.
He couldn't spend a night without begging me cause he wanted me. But I still refused until we hit nine months without him seeing my body. I disliked him to the point where I no longer dressed in front of him.
I was now preparing for my kids and making sure we all eat until I wash plates and pot before he comes in the evening.
A few weeks later, he stopped talking to me, and all I had to do is. He stopped asking me for sex It was at this moment that I had the idea to know if he sees elsewhere.
In my investigations, I discover that my husband is sleeping with another woman to the point where she is two months pregnant.
I hurt so bad, and in my anger I also wanted to hurt it where it hurts the most.
This is how i slept with one of my exes too.
When my husband found out I was sleeping with another man, he kicked me at the door.
I stayed two months at my mom's house waiting for her to come and ask for forgiveness and take me home, she never came.
I came back and found that his tchiza already lives with us.
How to be a coach?